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45 Lolita Questions written at 4 AM
Friday, 20 June 2025 04:25I hate my life.
1. Please tell us your Hand Name (name that’s used ONLY in internet.) and hometown.
Godofpoop69/Gobelin Deez. (Like, Gobbling Deez Nuts)
I’m not giving out my hometown wtf but I’m from Massachusetts, USA.
2. About how long is your history as a Lolita?
Almost 4 years I guess!
3. What first motivated you to do Lolita fashion?
My friend looked good in it! She looked like a fairy and I was like :O I needddd to also look like that. She had such cute dresses… I bought one of the same ones as her and I still own it today, haha. It is the babydoll penguin dress from the Chinese brand called Lullaby. It’s white and has pink flowers, bows, and little tiny penguins on it.
4. After knowing Lolita fashion, have you had any time-gap or resistance till you actually started to be Lolita?
Nope! I basically stole my mom’s credit card to buy my first dress, which was a 35 dollar replica from Aliexpress. After that, since I couldn’t get a job for a plethora of reasons, I dug into my savings account of birthday and CNY money which my parents made for me when I was young… bleh
5. Please define your Lolita style as much as possible. (eg. gothic Lolita, sweet Lolita, white Lolita…. Etc).
Oldschool sweet lolita! Or at least I try to be. I have been liking punk lately, though… I’d love to be an oldschool classic lolita, but I feel like all my favorite dresses are expensive and rare, like gobelin teddy trumpet sleeve OP.
6. About how many Lolita friends do you have?
Omg… I can’t count!! I have so many oldschool friends in Boston and online!! Also I have a close friends Discord server of all kinds of lolitas as well. Many online mutual acquaintances too…
7. What is the best thing about doing Lolita?
Becoming someone that you “aren’t”! I love feeling like I’m transported into a fantasy world. I love dressing up my plain ass body.
8. Conversely, what's the worst thing?
I don’t like how the community can be toxic to each other. Also, all my gender non conforming male/crossdresser/MTF friends basically all got cyberbullied as teenagers in the lolita community, which makes me very sad. My friends are not predators or ugly at all…
9. Which Lolita Brands do you like?
ANGELIC PRETTY. Omg, old AP is soooo rare, and I need more. Old baby is cute too! I used to be an IW and meta stan but to be honest, they feel too classic for me. I want to be a cake or a pink flower, not a brown box.
10. What was the first Lolita item that you’ve owned?
Replica of Dollsparty’s Antique Doll OP (which I still own). I only wore it out once, but still give it wear indoors because I already own it anyways. I will always be upfront that it is a replica, though. My first actual dress was an Infanta dress with angels on it. I really regret selling it!
11. What is the “must have!” Lolita item?
For me, it would be ruffle socks and white accessories!
12. Do you wear drawers?
I typically do, but sometimes I just give up when it’s really hot and not windy.
13. Do you have any favourite Japanese music?
Nope. I’m a western goth in terms of music. However, I do like Boris! I went to their 20th anniversary Amplifier Worship concert. Also, a really fun Japanese album that I adore for no reason (not goth or metal) is Wamono Disco.
14. Where do you particularly visit as Lolita?
Lol, my classrooms for lectures. Or, going out in nature so no one stares at me while I take my photos.
15. About how many times per week do you dress as Lolita?
I try to wear my lolita pieces casually every day! I love lifestyling.
16. Please tell us about one embarrassing episode from the time when you were just beginning Lolita.
Um, not me, but I was the one experiencing embarrassment. At my first meetup, a comm member’s +1 was an influencer. She was very kind and funny, but she wanted to film a video sitting in the Tesla at the mall’s Tesla store while shouting out the window “we’re going shopping!!!” Or something. She had the employees take the video… and I stood by as everyone in the mall was looking at us. Yeah um… sometimes influencing is interesting.
17. What's hairstyle and color that you think Lolita would suite the most?
I think all hair colors look amazing for lolita. However, one day I would love to dye my hair a really funky and bright color. As for hairstyle, I think any “neat” hairstyle — short or long —is super cute.
18. Have you ever thought of stopping Lolita? The reason?
Yes, when there was a ton of drama in the community two years ago. Every time I wore lolita, I just felt weird because I got reminded that other lolitas were being crazy to each other. I’m glad I didn’t stop, though!
19. Please tell us your heart's bible as a Lolita. (anything like a book, magazine, CD, idol...)
Uh, I don’t really know if I have a lolita “Bible”. However, I think I got into alternative fashion from the goth subculture, so I would say the Virgin Prunes album “If I Die, I Die” is close to my heart.
Maybe also… the actual Bible? Lol.
20. Do you own a doll? Tell us your feelings about her intensely!
I have sooo many antique porcelain dolls from thrift stores! I also have a BJD and an MJD!! I also have two Blythe dolls and a few Lalaloopsy dolls!!! They are all soooo cute. I love them so much.
21. What kind of make-up do you wear when you wear Lolita clothes?
Just simple ass lipstick + mascara. Sometimes, light colored eyeshadow. Never any eyeliner because fuck that shit.
22. Have you ever secretly changed clothes in a train station bathroom on Lolita day-out?
Yesssss. My first old school meetup… I felt so nervous riding public transport in a coord so I got ready in a mall bathroom and covered up my dress with a giant raincoat.
23. Are you composed when doing Lolita all by yourself?
The fuck? Yes?
24. How much do you spend in your Lolita clothes& accessary monthly?
Depends on how much money I have at the time from my job. My shifts get kind of random and change around a lot. I used to be making like 800 a month as a student worker, and I’d feel so rich and spend like 100 a month man. It wasn’t good… BLEH.
25. What is the most expensive Lolita thing you've bought so far? How much was it?
My stupid ass 2003 Millefeuille jsk which was 192 dollars. It’s really comfy and cute though, and comparably a good deal.
26. So far about how much has the expense been for Lolita goods?
What the fuck?
27. Lolita outfit really costs money. How do you raise money to cover the cost of
A fucking job. What kind of question is this? How the fuck else do you get money? From your parents? From the sugar daddy? Stealing?
28. Have you ever bought from an online store? If so, please tell us its good and bad points and some advice for the future. If not, please tell us why not.
Yep. I live in Massachusetts so uh, our only option is to buy online or at swap meets. Good points = i dont know bruh, convenience. Bad points = if you’re a newbie, it’s easy to fall into a scam site.
29. Even if you sort of want to keep it a secret, please clandestinely tell us about a private manufacturer that is the best.
What the fuck does this mean?
30. Is there a brand and/or an item that you think, "I could never get it! But I unreasonably want it!"?
Yessss, all of meta’s trumpet sleeve OPs!! Antique bouquet… gobelin florals… gobelin teddy… AHHHH.
31. What do you think about people who only do Lolita at music-lives or cosplay?
I don’t give a shit.
32. From what age to what age is it acceptable to do Lolita? Do you think that there's a state in which someone must graduate from
Dumbass POS question. Idk, however old you can afford it. Never stop, never too old.
33. Is there a Lolita fashion or behavior that you think "I don't want Lolitas to do this!" about?
Don’t say fatphobic or transphobic things to minors? Lmao. Uh, otherwise, maybe don’t act a fool at a meetup because that draws more attention to us.
34. Is there something you think "Lolita has to be this way!" about?
Personally, as an old school lolita… I wish all modern lolitas would stop being so goddamn creative LOL. Just kidding, everyone has their own style, and I do not care.
35. While doing Lolita, has something changed from earlier than you did Lolita?
I stopped wearing modern sweet and transitioned into oldschool sweet! It feels more authentic, casual, and rococo inspired to me.
36. Do you go to school/work as Lolita?
Yes!! Only school. I work at an ice cream parlor, so it’s too messy.
37. Do you wear Lolita clothes as casual wear?
Yesss. In the winter, I wear my dresses on top of black bell bottom jeans lol.
38. Do you have a boyfriend (or husband)? Do you understand each other? (I think she meant “Does he understand you (as lolita)?”)
Yes, he’s amazing. We are both nerds (he’s into… war strategy? History? Also Warhammer and anime (about war)) so we don’t really “understand” each other’s hobbies, but we support them!
39. What do the people around you think of your doing Lolita? Do they accept it?
My mom is supportive and thinks it’s funny and cute! My dad… doesn’t react? I’ll walk in a full coord and he’ll just be like, “Hi, what do you want for dinner?” Lol.
40. What kind of Lolita is who has impressed you the most up until now?
Maybe those who own really cool, old, and rare dresses.
41. Have you ever made your own Lolita clothing or/and accessories? If so, what was the best item that you’ve made?
I’ve made simple accessories! I am going to attempt a skirt and blouse set soon :)
42. If you have an ideal Lolita outfit or coordination, please tell us.
I just want to wear a really floofy OP with a cute pattern and look like a giant flower.
43. Is there a motif that you think “this is a simple of Lolita”?
H u h, Do you mean sample? Maybe crowns or bows.
44. Would you want to dress your children as Lolita?
YES!!!! But they might hate it haha. I won’t ever force them to wear it when they are older, but I really want a baby, and I want to dress my baby in frills and pastels.
45. What's your image of the ideal Lolita?
Someone who feels confident in whoever they are, and loves themselves enough to adorn their body with frills :) so basically everyone!
1. Please tell us your Hand Name (name that’s used ONLY in internet.) and hometown.
Godofpoop69/Gobelin Deez. (Like, Gobbling Deez Nuts)
I’m not giving out my hometown wtf but I’m from Massachusetts, USA.
2. About how long is your history as a Lolita?
Almost 4 years I guess!
3. What first motivated you to do Lolita fashion?
My friend looked good in it! She looked like a fairy and I was like :O I needddd to also look like that. She had such cute dresses… I bought one of the same ones as her and I still own it today, haha. It is the babydoll penguin dress from the Chinese brand called Lullaby. It’s white and has pink flowers, bows, and little tiny penguins on it.
4. After knowing Lolita fashion, have you had any time-gap or resistance till you actually started to be Lolita?
Nope! I basically stole my mom’s credit card to buy my first dress, which was a 35 dollar replica from Aliexpress. After that, since I couldn’t get a job for a plethora of reasons, I dug into my savings account of birthday and CNY money which my parents made for me when I was young… bleh
5. Please define your Lolita style as much as possible. (eg. gothic Lolita, sweet Lolita, white Lolita…. Etc).
Oldschool sweet lolita! Or at least I try to be. I have been liking punk lately, though… I’d love to be an oldschool classic lolita, but I feel like all my favorite dresses are expensive and rare, like gobelin teddy trumpet sleeve OP.
6. About how many Lolita friends do you have?
Omg… I can’t count!! I have so many oldschool friends in Boston and online!! Also I have a close friends Discord server of all kinds of lolitas as well. Many online mutual acquaintances too…
7. What is the best thing about doing Lolita?
Becoming someone that you “aren’t”! I love feeling like I’m transported into a fantasy world. I love dressing up my plain ass body.
8. Conversely, what's the worst thing?
I don’t like how the community can be toxic to each other. Also, all my gender non conforming male/crossdresser/MTF friends basically all got cyberbullied as teenagers in the lolita community, which makes me very sad. My friends are not predators or ugly at all…
9. Which Lolita Brands do you like?
ANGELIC PRETTY. Omg, old AP is soooo rare, and I need more. Old baby is cute too! I used to be an IW and meta stan but to be honest, they feel too classic for me. I want to be a cake or a pink flower, not a brown box.
10. What was the first Lolita item that you’ve owned?
Replica of Dollsparty’s Antique Doll OP (which I still own). I only wore it out once, but still give it wear indoors because I already own it anyways. I will always be upfront that it is a replica, though. My first actual dress was an Infanta dress with angels on it. I really regret selling it!
11. What is the “must have!” Lolita item?
For me, it would be ruffle socks and white accessories!
12. Do you wear drawers?
I typically do, but sometimes I just give up when it’s really hot and not windy.
13. Do you have any favourite Japanese music?
Nope. I’m a western goth in terms of music. However, I do like Boris! I went to their 20th anniversary Amplifier Worship concert. Also, a really fun Japanese album that I adore for no reason (not goth or metal) is Wamono Disco.
14. Where do you particularly visit as Lolita?
Lol, my classrooms for lectures. Or, going out in nature so no one stares at me while I take my photos.
15. About how many times per week do you dress as Lolita?
I try to wear my lolita pieces casually every day! I love lifestyling.
16. Please tell us about one embarrassing episode from the time when you were just beginning Lolita.
Um, not me, but I was the one experiencing embarrassment. At my first meetup, a comm member’s +1 was an influencer. She was very kind and funny, but she wanted to film a video sitting in the Tesla at the mall’s Tesla store while shouting out the window “we’re going shopping!!!” Or something. She had the employees take the video… and I stood by as everyone in the mall was looking at us. Yeah um… sometimes influencing is interesting.
17. What's hairstyle and color that you think Lolita would suite the most?
I think all hair colors look amazing for lolita. However, one day I would love to dye my hair a really funky and bright color. As for hairstyle, I think any “neat” hairstyle — short or long —is super cute.
18. Have you ever thought of stopping Lolita? The reason?
Yes, when there was a ton of drama in the community two years ago. Every time I wore lolita, I just felt weird because I got reminded that other lolitas were being crazy to each other. I’m glad I didn’t stop, though!
19. Please tell us your heart's bible as a Lolita. (anything like a book, magazine, CD, idol...)
Uh, I don’t really know if I have a lolita “Bible”. However, I think I got into alternative fashion from the goth subculture, so I would say the Virgin Prunes album “If I Die, I Die” is close to my heart.
Maybe also… the actual Bible? Lol.
20. Do you own a doll? Tell us your feelings about her intensely!
I have sooo many antique porcelain dolls from thrift stores! I also have a BJD and an MJD!! I also have two Blythe dolls and a few Lalaloopsy dolls!!! They are all soooo cute. I love them so much.
21. What kind of make-up do you wear when you wear Lolita clothes?
Just simple ass lipstick + mascara. Sometimes, light colored eyeshadow. Never any eyeliner because fuck that shit.
22. Have you ever secretly changed clothes in a train station bathroom on Lolita day-out?
Yesssss. My first old school meetup… I felt so nervous riding public transport in a coord so I got ready in a mall bathroom and covered up my dress with a giant raincoat.
23. Are you composed when doing Lolita all by yourself?
The fuck? Yes?
24. How much do you spend in your Lolita clothes& accessary monthly?
Depends on how much money I have at the time from my job. My shifts get kind of random and change around a lot. I used to be making like 800 a month as a student worker, and I’d feel so rich and spend like 100 a month man. It wasn’t good… BLEH.
25. What is the most expensive Lolita thing you've bought so far? How much was it?
My stupid ass 2003 Millefeuille jsk which was 192 dollars. It’s really comfy and cute though, and comparably a good deal.
26. So far about how much has the expense been for Lolita goods?
What the fuck?
27. Lolita outfit really costs money. How do you raise money to cover the cost of
A fucking job. What kind of question is this? How the fuck else do you get money? From your parents? From the sugar daddy? Stealing?
28. Have you ever bought from an online store? If so, please tell us its good and bad points and some advice for the future. If not, please tell us why not.
Yep. I live in Massachusetts so uh, our only option is to buy online or at swap meets. Good points = i dont know bruh, convenience. Bad points = if you’re a newbie, it’s easy to fall into a scam site.
29. Even if you sort of want to keep it a secret, please clandestinely tell us about a private manufacturer that is the best.
What the fuck does this mean?
30. Is there a brand and/or an item that you think, "I could never get it! But I unreasonably want it!"?
Yessss, all of meta’s trumpet sleeve OPs!! Antique bouquet… gobelin florals… gobelin teddy… AHHHH.
31. What do you think about people who only do Lolita at music-lives or cosplay?
I don’t give a shit.
32. From what age to what age is it acceptable to do Lolita? Do you think that there's a state in which someone must graduate from
Dumbass POS question. Idk, however old you can afford it. Never stop, never too old.
33. Is there a Lolita fashion or behavior that you think "I don't want Lolitas to do this!" about?
Don’t say fatphobic or transphobic things to minors? Lmao. Uh, otherwise, maybe don’t act a fool at a meetup because that draws more attention to us.
34. Is there something you think "Lolita has to be this way!" about?
Personally, as an old school lolita… I wish all modern lolitas would stop being so goddamn creative LOL. Just kidding, everyone has their own style, and I do not care.
35. While doing Lolita, has something changed from earlier than you did Lolita?
I stopped wearing modern sweet and transitioned into oldschool sweet! It feels more authentic, casual, and rococo inspired to me.
36. Do you go to school/work as Lolita?
Yes!! Only school. I work at an ice cream parlor, so it’s too messy.
37. Do you wear Lolita clothes as casual wear?
Yesss. In the winter, I wear my dresses on top of black bell bottom jeans lol.
38. Do you have a boyfriend (or husband)? Do you understand each other? (I think she meant “Does he understand you (as lolita)?”)
Yes, he’s amazing. We are both nerds (he’s into… war strategy? History? Also Warhammer and anime (about war)) so we don’t really “understand” each other’s hobbies, but we support them!
39. What do the people around you think of your doing Lolita? Do they accept it?
My mom is supportive and thinks it’s funny and cute! My dad… doesn’t react? I’ll walk in a full coord and he’ll just be like, “Hi, what do you want for dinner?” Lol.
40. What kind of Lolita is who has impressed you the most up until now?
Maybe those who own really cool, old, and rare dresses.
41. Have you ever made your own Lolita clothing or/and accessories? If so, what was the best item that you’ve made?
I’ve made simple accessories! I am going to attempt a skirt and blouse set soon :)
42. If you have an ideal Lolita outfit or coordination, please tell us.
I just want to wear a really floofy OP with a cute pattern and look like a giant flower.
43. Is there a motif that you think “this is a simple of Lolita”?
H u h, Do you mean sample? Maybe crowns or bows.
44. Would you want to dress your children as Lolita?
YES!!!! But they might hate it haha. I won’t ever force them to wear it when they are older, but I really want a baby, and I want to dress my baby in frills and pastels.
45. What's your image of the ideal Lolita?
Someone who feels confident in whoever they are, and loves themselves enough to adorn their body with frills :) so basically everyone!
